As all good parents, we want to avoid repeating the mistakes of our upbringing. So, my approach to junk food is an open door policy -- which in our house is an open drawer policy. We have "The Junk Food Drawer" instead of "The Box". At least the kids learn what is junk food and what isn't based on its location.
However, there are some parental controls.
- The kids have to ask before taking anything from the drawer, but I rarely say no. Only if we are about to eat a meal -- I say yes, but they have to eat real food first.
- Another trick is to have them propose how many pieces. They consistently ask for less than I might have doled out.
- A plate, bowl or bag must be used so there is some sense of portion -- no eating directly from the bag at our house, but a whole lot more dishes.
Have a good day,
Practical Jenn
(Disclaimer: Although my kids don't over eat junk food this should not imply success in fruit & vegetable consumption. Please post your suggestions.)
I am guilty! I definitely recall extracting the hinge pin to get at the Scooter Pies. (Talk about the junkiest of junk foods. Scooter Pies!) How many times did I and my co-conspirator siblings do this? Probably more than once -- but not that many times.
ReplyDeleteWe had a junk food drawer too when I was growing up. Swiss cake rolls always seemed to disappear the fastest...
ReplyDeleteFor the record, my mother is denying everything!
ReplyDeleteJenn, I had the same upbringing!! Peanut Butter Balls (made with all natual peanut butter, no sugar) were a "treat." And just like you I have residual junk food issues. So I totally subscribe to the open door policy. It seems to be working for my kids too. Good advice!
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